HAPPY 2ND BDAY SSVES! :D

To the cutest boy on earth! (nephew)


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~current mood: bitter~

Attachment. Though seems to be part of the word love, is still different. I only say this because no one wants to be alone.. however independent one may seem, they still long to have the company of another. I personally think that the word 'love' is strong, and that it is misused constantly. NOT SAYING THAT NO ONE LOVES. But in the relationship way... I think it should be really taken into consideration of who and when you say it. I only say this because of all the things I've seen or personally felt and the effects it has. Here are a couple of situations on where I think it is misused:

=EXAMPLE ONE=
'm' & 'f' have been together for four years, started dating the beginning of high school, m is only with f because she's faking hot, and she's only with him cause she's been him for that long already and believes they could be together forever. Though she pours her heart to him constantly, he's already lost interest in her and does not give two shits about what she has to say. Therefore, because of the time period of the relationship, their both still together cause they don't know anything else. Hmm.

=EXAMPLE 2=
'm' & 'f' together for two months. He says he loves her to get into her pants. Oh typical.

=EXAMPLE 3=
'm' & 'f' together for a little over a year. He forgets about her slowly, yet claims he still loves her.

=EXAMPLE 4=
'm' & 'f' together for five months, the appearance of the relationship is most important. The 'loving' aspect.

WELLL, I don't know what else to write about this attachment thing, but it is certainly not love. Oh mannnn. I am so bitter HAHA.